Most of us use accoutrements to spice up our sex lives, whether it’s a sex life you have with yourself (and your hand) or a significant other. Well, I have a lot of accoutrements: costumes (lingerie), dildos, vibrators, cock rings, porn. You name it, I’ve got it. I even have a fuck ramp; two in … Continue reading Sex Toy, or Child’s Toy? Both…Maybe?
We’ve all said it before: men think with their dicks. It’s how they’re wired. And while we hope they will overcome this—either by will or by training—nature usually wins out. Classic example: Savannah and Ali were on spring break together at the beach. Every day they hauled snacks, floaties, chairs, and sun screen to and … Continue reading The Brain Below the Waist
A lot of men are under the impression that women want sex to last a long time. While that is sometimes the case, once you have been married for about ten years and have “hit that” in about every position using every hole (or at least the holes you are willing to use…see the Blog … Continue reading Lidocaine and Sex
Men are visual creatures. They like porn. (No judgement; so do I.) They like seeing women in lingerie. I call them outfits. Well Matthew loves outfits. He had, at one time, a literal 20-gallon trash bag full of outfits for me. (It’s still not empty. We’re talking dozens and dozens of outfits here.) Some were … Continue reading Lock the Door, Always
My husband Matthew and I have been married more than 20 years. I have been sucking dick for a long time. But several years ago, for some reason, I decided that there might be a technique I was missing, something I wasn’t doing that would really rock his world. I am always willing to learn … Continue reading Sucking Dick